The Revitalization of my Life-Day 14

I am tired of singing the same ole song, but I have to keep singing it until I start doing what I suppose to be doing...working out. And you guessed it, I didn't do it this morning. I woke up late and believe me that is not a good excuse, but it is what happened. But I can still be proud of myself because I did take advantage of a small opportunity. Every morning when I awake, I don't greet my mate. I am not a Scrooge, but it takes me a minute to get myself together and I really just don't talk in the morning. I use that time to get my thoughts together and think about what I need to do for the day. The reason for me making this change is because I talked to my wife last night and I asked her what was her ideal day of a married woman. I took mental notes and made it my business to change what I wasn't doing and start doing it. So when I got up this morning and looked at her beautiful face, I said, "good morning and how are you doing this morning?" Felt really good because I knew that I had done something that she wanted me to and I saw that I could make adjustments within my daily routine to accommodate her needs.

Sometimes we have to sit and talk and ask questions to really find out what needs to be done. The other half of this is that the other person has to be honest about whats going on. That old saying really is true...it does take two. We have to put our wants to the side sometimes and figure out what the other half wants and maybe, just maybe improving yourself to fit their needs will automatically create an environment that will take care of your wants!

"Take care of their needs and they will take care of your wants"-K.J Swint