The Revitilization of my Life--Day 6

Today begins the weekend and that means that I have another to rest my body before I put back on the workout plan. I was thinking to myself when I awoke, “what am I going to do today to revitalize my life? Then it hit me.

I remembered the beginning of my relationship with my fiancé (just for the record I really love saying the word because it’s so close to wife!...just excited, that’s all) and that she expressed to me that I never told her that she was pretty or beautiful. When I sat back and thought about, she was right. Every now and then I would tell her that she looked nice, but I never expressed to her how beautiful she was to me. At that moment, I begin to think to myself, I need to tell her how beautiful she is more often because I really do think that she is a beautiful young lady. Then I begin thinking, “I thought women wanted us to focus on the inner beauty and not the outer booty?” I was under the assumption that women wanted us to focus more on how they feel and how they need to be treated versus how they look, at least that’s what they express when they see a guy staring at a woman because of her body.

That was then, this is now. Now I ask myself, “why is it that women need a co-signer on their beauty when God already so-signed for it?” A woman shouldn't need for a man to justify how she looks by telling her that she looks good. She should already know this. There is no need to want this from a man. I know that there are a lot of women who are probably saying, “well, a man should tell his lady/wife that she is beautiful every now and then.” And the women who are thinking this are absolutely right, but there is another side to this. A man should tell his spouse this, but his spouse shouldn't want or need for this to happen for them to feel good about themselves. A man telling his woman that she is beauty is a perk, not a necessity. Let’s not get it twisted and women please don’t take this the wrong way. I am not in any way saying that it’s OK for a man to not tell his woman that she is beautiful at all…I’m not saying that. What I am saying is that, him telling her is not something that she should need in order to feel good about how she feel as a woman. She should feel good about who she is on her own. If she expects to be the wife one day or if she is already a wife, she needs to know that she is bold and beautiful and no one needs to tell her in order for her to really know it because her beauty has already been signed by her father, the almighty God.

So, I am going to tell my fiancé that she is beautiful, not because she needs it to feel good about herself but because it’s true and because I want to!

“A co-signer is needed when the signer is not strong enough to carry what is being signed for…A co-signer is never needed when it’s already been signed”-K.J Swint