Well, its been a couple of days since I made a post and it's for a good reason. I have been working late and my wife has started grad school. I know you are wondering what does my wife starting grad school have to do with me posting to my blog. Well, let me explain. When anyone starts something that they are not use to, it usually makes there life a little hectic. I know my life gets like that. Well, I want to make her life a little easier so I decided to get her clothes ready for the next week so that it's one less thing she has to worry about. Then I rearranged her closet so that she would be able to find things like her shoes and accessories. So now my wife has a neat closet, her wardrobe for the next week and a husband who is happy. What more can you ask for? Everyday I am learning more and more that it's not about you but about someone else, her! When things occur, I don't ever think about myself, I always think about her first and then the dog, and then me!
Where would this world be if we only thought about our self? You can't expect to be completely happy without making someone else happy first. I was talking to a co-worker of mine yesterday and she made a good point. She told me that you must first love God and then your wife and then everything else will fall into place. She said that God will take care of you, all you have to do is love him first. God designed us to love others and not our self. He wants us to love him and he will take care of us. Then once he sends love our way, he wants us to love them as Christ love the church. All in all, just love someone else besides yourself and life will be better I guarantee! And don't do it to get something in return, do it just because you want to and it's the right thing to do. Just think, what if no one did anything for you, how would you feel and where would you be in life?
"Just do something for someone today. It can be as small as a smile-they tend to go further than you think!"-K.J Swint
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